I'm feeling really sucky right now.
Someone thinks she's "helping" me, when in reality, she's ruining my life, bit by bit. I can't STAND it anymore! And then she attempts to take her own failings and pin them on me, saying that I do the same. And when I asked her for an example, she scrounged around and couldn't come up with any.
Gosh, life really sucks sometimes, you know?
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Oh my goodness, that's just awful! People like that are absolutely rotten to deal with. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. :(
Is there any way to cut her out of your life, or at least negate her actions?
That is so annoying. Is this person the type that you can talk to and she'll listen? I would try telling her to back off a bit but you have to know who you are talking to. Good luck! :(
nah, can't tell her to back off...
and i was just majorly insulted this morning... i don't think she realized that she called me a nebach case...
makes one feel great, huh?
Ouch! When will people learn the meaning of siyug lachachma shetika?
(((HUGS)))
That's rotten. :(
And you're not a nebbach case!
halfshared--don't hold your breath; some people never learn.
:-(
Is she the type to talk to at all about it?
I dunno...from experience, sometimes people will surprise you and say/do things you'd never have expected of them...
Hatzlacha...
:'( sorry you had to go through it. Yes, it's tough but I'm happy that now you have recognized the game she is unconciously (conciously?) playing you can try to fortify yourself before dealings with her so that she will not have the power to hurt you so deeply again. My sincere sympathies, you really seem to be having a rough few weeks, hope it brightens really soon and we see you :)ing
I feel ur pain...
really
:-(
I don't think "talking" is the answer. It's a nice idea but in reality it's usually irrelevant. (When people say things and can't give examples/explain themselves, it's generally not coming from a rational place)
Any way you could position yourself far away from this person? It might not stop her from doing what she's doing, but it may distance you from the feeling that your life is being ruined...
BTW, should have said this before getting all technical on you... but...
Dreamer, I'm really really sorry to see you feeling so down. *ehugs* I'm davening that things should get better soon...
YOU- a nebach case??
Its almost comical.
And btw- I really like your horn. It adds so much personality.
I like my horn, too.
i think i'll leave it there/
:)
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